Tuesday, February 21, 2017

You are not flawed !

We don't have flaws. We are all created as beautiful beings. I am tired of living in a world where we are trying to fix "flaws". Guess what, I am not flawed and neither are you. Its not about fixing what is society says is "flawed", no its about saying that is me and I am 100% confident with that. The definition of a flaw: a mistake or fault in something that makes it useless or less effective; a mark or fault that spoils something and makes it less beautiful or perfect.

So let me ask you this, what do you feel is your flaw? Ok well I will go first, my stomach. I hate it! It's the one place that I feel most insecure about. Why? Well that is where I carry my extra fat. And yes, we all have fat, it's NORMAL! Even looking at myself, there are so many things I can hyper focus on that I see as an imperfection but guess what, it's not. My fat on my stomach is a sign that I am a healthy female woman capable of handling life. I am strong and powerful, not flawed in any way. Although yes I would much rather be lean, I would also be able to have healthy hormones and be strong.

Other things that people see as flaws normally pertain to your body: big/ small booms, big hips, big thighs, too small, to muscular, etc. You see you can't please anyone and why should you try to ? So let’s stop trying to fix things that aren’t in need of repair. Let’s quit declaring our individual features as flaws that should just be “embraced”; they’re not flaws. It’s not us as women that need to be fixed. What needs to be fixed is how we speak to ourselves internally. Our personal self talk is the part we need to change. We are beautiful in our own being.

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