Sunday, February 14, 2016

You are Special .. remember that !

You are beautiful, yes you are. Just the way you are right now in this moment. For a LONG time, I tried to understand why I didn't feel like I fit in. Knowing that your beauty comes from within YOU is important. No one can take that away from you. You have to wake up every day loving yourself. Being able to look into the mirror and be proud of you and what you have accomplished.

Life is hard enough, why are you so hard on yourself? There are so many stereotypes out there. To be skinny, tall, long hair, blonde. blue eyes. Not to mention, no visible flaws, to have the perfect outfit, to have the right shoes and purse. Makeup that hides any small imperfection. You have to be happy on the outside even if your heart is sad and you feel lost or like giving up.

I wish I can tell you that this is any easy thing to just wake up one day and shake out of it. To be able to stand in front of the mirror 100% confident of who you are today. I want to be able to say I can do that too, however I can't. I see flaws,  A LOT of them. I see imperfection. I see doubt and fear of failure. I smile because I choose to try to overcome it, but the pain remains inside. I fight to make peace with myself daily. I compromise and talk myself into things. I try mantras, I try self love books, videos and even meditation.

I want to help others with the struggle of feelings of being inadequate. If it's one thing I know, no matter what we can choose our identity. We can choose who we are. Others have no power over that they just have opinions. Our minds are the gateway to what and how we think. The mind is a trained tool. What we learn we can also unlearn and create other pathways to shape our thoughts. You can train your mind to love yourself. For every negative, speak 2 kind words to yourself.

I have a passion, a vision and a goal. To make the world a more beautiful place. To help others overcome their fears.To encourage others to see the beauty they have inside. To feel beautiful no matter what. TO LOVE YOURSELF  UNCONDITIONALLY  and to share that love to others !

If you have not seen this video please watch this, share it and listen to the words. Sometimes a song speaks to you. This one brought me to tears. It made 100% sense and it was a beautiful reminder that we are beautiful in all our imperfections and flaws !

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